Dating in real life : how to ask for a phone number ?

Published on : 10 February 20223 min reading time

Have you ever been in a situation where you find someone you’re interested in, but you couldn’t get their phone number? It happens that we go out and meet someone who is just our type, but unfortunately it doesn’t go beyond a game of look. In this article, you’ll see what you need to do in order to go further and establish a long-term relationship.

How do you approach a person?

First and foremost, it is important to make contact with the person or to pick them up. To do this, it is important to be confident, to know how to make conversation and to create a calm, relaxed and comfortable atmosphere. To pick up a person, you should start by introducing yourself in a confident and polite manner. If you are already in the middle of a conversation, don’t hesitate to take advantage of pauses to introduce yourself. Normally, the person you are talking to will respond by introducing themselves as well. If this is not the case, ask them. Afterwards, make conversation, use your humour, tease them, but be careful not to overdo it.

How to ask for her phone number

First of all, be aware that a phone number is intimate information. A normal person will not go around shouting his or her phone number in the streets of the city. Therefore, you will have to earn it more or less. To ask for a phone number, you can propose an appointment to the person. If the person accepts, the number will only be a detail for you to organise. In some cases, the person may feel uncomfortable giving out the number because of friends or other reasons. To make it easier for you, you can be a bit playful and ask her to whisper her number in your ear just once and if you remember it, you have earned it. If not, try your luck next time.

How do I contact a person again?

It is possible that the person has refused the appointment or that you have missed your chance. There is no need to be pushy, just resume the discussion or if the situation requires it, leave with your dignity. If you have managed to get their number, it is customary to call them face-to-face, to check or to exchange numbers. If you have promised her a date, make sure you arrange a good time together. To do this, contact her and ask what you are going to do. Don’t wait too long before contacting the person again, especially if it was at a party with alcoholic drinks. Do it after 24 hours to avoid showing that you are too impatient and before 48 hours so that you don’t get left behind or they forget about you.

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